Let me guess.

It’s your dream to be loved and cherished by your man just like the first time you met.

Naturally, it can be very distressing when you realise the spark you once had with your man has faded.

But here’s the thing:

YOU can reignite your relationship.

How? Here are three of my personal favourite ways that have helped my clients do the same:

#1. One way is to model those who are already living their dream relationship.

I am a great fan of Novak Djokovic. Not only he is world’s No. 1 tennis player and has established the Novak Djokovic Foundation, but he’s also committed to his childhood sweetheart and now wife, Jelena.

In the early days, they both struggled, with her paying her way through university to study management and him going on world tours with no money to spare. Jelena once said, “We contrived and devised plans how to meet, how to make our relationship work.”

Through all the ups and downs in his career, Jelena has been very supportive and has travelled with him to all his major events.

You can’t help thinking: How do they keep the spark alive?

Firstly, they both share common passions – one is for sport and the other is to support disadvantaged children in Serbia through their Foundation where Jelena is now the Chief Executive.

Secondly, they are committed to each other and deeply in love.

So, my point? Just like the Novaks, become actively engaged in similar interests with space for personal growth. The more quality time you spend together the more you will stay connected and enjoy deep love for each other.

#2. Take your intimacy with your partner to a whole new level.

Tantric Yoga practices are the best way to release the stress and tension we inadvertently hold in our bodies, allowing us to be totally vulnerable with our feelings for our partner.

“Don’t be a woman that needs a man. Be a woman a man needs” – Unknown

Men are predominately masculine by nature and all they want is to be at the top of their game. Let them be.

As a woman, YOU have the power to create passion, fun, excitement, warmth and affection. So, tap into your feminine energy of love. Believe you are worthy and deserving of deep love and connection. The Law of Attraction says that you attract into your life whatever you think about. Therefore think and believe you are the source of all your love and that is what you will unconsciously attract without him even knowing.

#3. Plan a getaway.

Make sure you have some surprises up your sleeve such as essential oils for massages, some beautiful lingerie or that special outfit to wear to dinner. In these special moments, be irresistible because you are the Goddess of Love.

Remember the time when your first met your man and something ignited that special chemistry between the two of you? Go back to those moments of sizzling love and romance and relive them now. Bring back those memories and refuel your passion and vigour for romance and intimacy.

Ladies, igniting your love life can be exciting, as well as, intimidating. But you don’t have to do it all alone: Contact Devika today for a life-changing 30 min complimentary session.